Holding back kindness or goodwill from the world and others under the reason that the world and others have not done the same for you is like being in a dark room with the very same I’ll intentional people, knocking and being knocked over in that same darkness and hiding your torch, lighter, candle, light so that they will not receive it too.
Don’t you realise that the only way to have light for yourself is to light it despite others!? Despite who gets it too!?
Don’t you recognise that the only way the constellation stays magnificent is because of the dark night without them!?
Learn all the ways to light up the room cause that is the wisest way to light up yours.